When these thoughts come up it’s hard to feel safe in your heart of hearts. They conflict you. You don’t need people to be codependent on, you just need to feel seen. Being seen is important. If they leave, they leave. You look for new people. If you need anything you can DM me, because I know what it’s like to feel like you have nobody. But also, you can still share a deep connection with someone even if they aren’t perfect. People leave sometimes but we take the best of them with us.

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I know that fear of people leaving can feel so scary, especially after being hurt. But there is nothing wrong with you and I hope u find things that bring you joy and make u happy :)

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I’ve had a similar experience as well. I overshared to my friends and when they started to treat me like a pet because of it, I pulled away to a harmful degree. It’s a whole mess, but what helps me is to know that I am the protector of my peace. Don’t let fear stop you from making authentic connections sweetheart. Fear will lie to you and lead you to some dark places. We need people. You steward what you share with others. You protect your peace.

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