Sidechat icon
Join communities on Sidechat Download
Recently I’ve been getting a lot of anxiety and depression from loneliness and just not really knowing anyone here. I’ve been calling friends and family a lot and trying to ask people to go out but it doesn’t make the feeling stop. I just wanna feel ok.
upvote 11 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 12h

But as for you, it’s not easy I know but try new things and go to the same place consistently. It took like 8 months for me to get good friends when I moved recently and that was through my run club going there I happened to meet some dudes and we started hanging out outside of the club. One thing that helped me is telling them I’m down to do whatever just let me know and invite me and they did and I’d always say yes

upvote 4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 12h

I get that feeling :(

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 12h

Lowkey jealous of those high school sweethearts that became married couples

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

I’m kinda the same but I am lucky enough to have friends that are pretty good. I just wish I had a romantic partner, someone who would reassure me everything will be ok and I can be there for them as we go through life together.

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 9h

Thanks for the advice! I’ve got a few hangouts planned with some people I’ve met recently at work and clubs, so feeling better. I’ll just keep showing up and trying to get closer to people and hopefully I’ll find my people!

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Just be consistent and you’ll find someone!

upvote 8 downvote