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Anxiety 5d
anyone else get anxious speaking up about how you feel? my roommates plan on drinking this weekend (i personally don’t drink) and they can get kinda loud and obnoxious and i’m scared to be straight up abt it & i don’t want them to hate me for it :(
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Anonymous 4d

maybe go home for the weekend if you can, or stay with a friend? another thing you could do is go to the library until it closes and then get home and put ur headphones on and relax! no one is forcing you to participate, but it’s also one of those days where lots of people want to have fun! so you have to understand that it’s just one weekend and then it’ll all be chill again

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

thank you for the advice :) the thing is that they’ve done this for a couple weekends in a row already and i can’t go home this weekend unfortunately. i also share a room with one of them who gets overly touchy feely with me so :/ plus the library is on the other side of campus and so is my friend :/

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

ooo if you share a room with someone who’s not respecting you, DEFINITELY speak up!! also touching you?? tell your RA, maybe they can place u somewhere else or speak with her

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