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Anxiety 4w
How do i not obsess over my ex/roommate being mad at me all the time when she is frequently mad at me and wont explain why
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Anonymous 4w

You might have to just talk to her about that and try to be as real as you can with her

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Anonymous 4w

Sometimes the best thing to do is completely remove the problem (ur ex/roommate), if she won’t explain then she ain’t worth your time nor energy

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

She haaates it and just blames me for her not being able to talk to me cuz she is mad but wont say why for long enough that i get anxious and then when she does finally tell me she describes how not telling me built resentment and then i do actually have a panic attack. Its a terrible cycle and now she says she cant trust me to be able to handle conversation cuz i make it about myself (have a panic attack that i very desperately do not wish to have)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah, that just sounds like a very abusive relationship and I feel like the best solution would just be to stop talking to this person and try to get a new roommate

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Idk if its abusive i just think shes really emotionally stunted

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Cannot afford to break a lease 👍

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Ahhh, that makes more sense

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