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How do I reject him without being mean
45 upvotes, 18 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Analyze My Texts. "How do I reject him without being mean"
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Anonymous 12w

Don’t listen to some of the other comments. Say “I appreciate the invite, but I don’t think it’s a good idea if we hang. It’s nothing personal; just don’t think we’re compatible. Hope you understand. I’m sorry”.

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Anonymous 12w

Or just say you’re not interested so he doesen’t hit you up again

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Anonymous 12w

“Sorry, I’m not really interested in you.”

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Anonymous 12w

“Sorry my grandma died”

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Anonymous 12w

My dad got brutally attacked with an axe while playing table tennis how I’m triggered

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Anonymous 12w

I’ll play table tennis with him that sounds fun

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Anonymous 12w

Save me

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Anonymous 12w

Have you met with him before?

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Anonymous 12w

He wants to play table tennis for 30 minutes 😭😭

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Anonymous 10w

be an adult and tell him

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Truly

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

👍🏾👍🏾

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12w

Best option

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12w

Yes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

just say thank you for the offer, but i am not interested in more than friendship

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 12w

Right?! That’s what I thought

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

This one is kinda tough. It’s obvious he’s going through something. Thats a big gap between texts. It is best to let him know. I like #7’s response except the “I don’t think it’s a good idea for us to meet”. Lighter tone is “Hey, I appreciate the invite but I don’t think we’re compatible. I’m sorry but I hope you understand and I wish you the best!” Hope this helps!

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10w

I did after this post

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