Analyze My Texts on Sidechat | If you asked someone if they liked hanging out with you, and they responded with “it’s not something I actively seek out but I don’t mind when we do”, wtf does that mean? Should I take that as an insult??

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Analyze My Texts 1w

If you asked someone if they liked hanging out with you, and they responded with “it’s not something I actively seek out but I don’t mind when we do”, wtf does that mean? Should I take that as an insult??

Anonymous 1w

Personally, I’d definitely be disappointed to hear that especially if it’s a person I genuinely enjoy hanging out with. That being said though, I could interpret that as “it’s nice on occasion to catch up but I’m not actively trying to become friends with you, I’d rather keep this as more of a casual acquaintance kind of a relationship”

Anonymous 6d

If it’s a guy, Yeah he’s there casually (not bad in a sense, but just uninterested and has other priorities in life that he focuses on)

Anonymous

#1 1w

Which in and of itself could be an insult since they’re kinda saying that, for whatever reason they just aren’t interested in getting to know you, which definitely sucks but yeah

Anonymous

#1 1w

I was definitely disappointed to hear that, because I considered him a friend, but I guess he’s just not a good person for me

Anonymous

shoeshiner_111 6d

Which is fine, but it hurt my feelings as this was right as I was confiding in him abt a lot of stuff affecting me and how I thought of him as a friend💔

Anonymous

OP 6d

Yeah that’s a shame for sure I feel like it can go both ways for guys and girls if they aren’t interested but enjoy talking. at least the friendship still stands tho even as time passes I usually just appreciate that the person was there to listen