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From my boyfriend. Is this abusive?
14 upvotes, 9 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Analyze My Texts. "From my boyfriend. Is this abusive?"
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Anonymous 20w

if you struggle with body image then idk about abuse (is this a pattern?) but this is definitely insensitive and if it affects you, you need to talk to him about it. if he undermines your feelings and minimizes you and your issue, then that's another red flag and you need to consider breaking up with him

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Anonymous 20w

Yes

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Anonymous 20w

No

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Anonymous 20w

if you don’t leave him it will get so much worse.

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Anonymous 18w

Not technically, however if this is frequent and used to tear you down instead of build you up then yes. If it is used as a form of control yes. But a story can only be assumed when 4 text messages are shown. Regardless. Throw the whole person away, thats a shitty thing to do to someone and you deserve better. You go enjoy your snack babes🖤

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Anonymous 20w

Are you fr? no he’s just teasing you and doesn’t mean it

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Anonymous 20w

Sounds like he’s a twink… or Twinkie 😏

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

He knows I struggle with body image :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19w

Then yes

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