Anonymous #2 1w

do you?

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Anonymous #3 1w

“Saying or doing something that is contrary to what is expected or believed for comedic effect” and all but 1 of these things fit that criteria

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Anonymous #2 1w

first one is him being inconsiderate, second one is him disregarding her feelings and playing dumb, third one he literally showed he doesn’t pay attention to her when she tells him things, fourth one was him just being an ass cause he knew the library closed soon and was acting like it’s ok to wait til the last min to leave… none of those are ironic if you actually read them.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Disregarding her feelings when she said she wasn’t scared? Sorry for trusting her IG

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Anonymous #3 1w

The third one also seems to be that he knows what she is doing(she told him) and said something ironic that is CONTRARY to what is believed (that he knows what she is doing) in AN attempt at humor

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Anonymous #3 1w

I don’t understand why people take EVERYTHING at face value nowadays. NUANCE IS still a thing that is used commonplace. It seems like this is the symptom of the death of critical thinking and people not being able to spend the little time it takes to delve deeper into the intended meaning.

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Anonymous #2 1w

she said she wasn’t scared just a lil freaked… meaning i’m not afraid but still a lil uncomfortable cmon now let’s use context clues

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Anonymous #3 6d

I interpreted the text as her just saying “no” and thinking in hear head that she is freaked because there are no quotations marks to discern between external and internal dialogue. It also seems like to me that the following statement would be something that would be included in parentheses as and afterthought or to add more information for context as to how she was really feeling

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Anonymous #2 6d

*an

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Anonymous #2 6d

Also because she doesn’t include a response from the guy to what she supposedly said about being unnerved

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Anonymous #2 6d

pretty sure some of these happened in person or idk how someone would read a book to someone thru text lol same with the library one i think she just used this community in general considering it’s written out experiences and not screenshots

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Anonymous #3 6d

I have no idea what you are trying to say. Not once did I mention that I thought these interactions took place digitally

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Anonymous #2 6d

“i interpreted the text” sounded like u meant text message dawg mb we are in the analyze my text community so i figured u were confused chill w the hostility

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Anonymous #3 6d

oh my god THANK YOU, u understand

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Anonymous #4 6d

what?? why would u think that 😭

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Anonymous #1 6d

oh my god pls

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Anonymous #2 6d

noo, i understand that it seems different on text, but he was dead serious, like it wasnt a joke at all

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Anonymous #2 6d

he just asked that and then continued to read his book to me, because the plan was to go outside and read our books and he decided to read his book to me

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Anonymous OP 6d

i get u girl we explain things the same lol i was like this makes perfect sense?!?😭

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Anonymous #3 6d

i need an unbiased opinion girl. someone said that its probably over because i made a list, is that a bad thing?? i never thought about it in a bad way because i make lists when i want to talk to him about things so i wont forget but i never thought about it that way

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Anonymous OP 6d

i mean i can see where they’re coming from because out of context it can come off as you building a list overtime of complaints however, if it was something that you just quickly needed to jot down because you planned on bringing it up to him later this week it’s not as bad, but I would consider how many times a day he’s causing you to jot something down and if it’s really worth it or if you should just protect your peace and part ways yk? Cause overtime it may build up to resentment on ur end

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Anonymous #3 6d

sorry my mom called me lmfao but i was gonna add: at the end of the day in my opinion it’s really up to what you’re ok tolerating and for how long but at the same time if he’s completely open to your communication and shows a willingness to change I don’t really see a reason to just leave because it’s showing that he’s willing to grow and work on it.

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