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Analyze My Texts 5w
I might be cooked
81 upvotes, 2 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Analyze My Texts. "I might be cooked"
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Anonymous 5w

Excellent question, why would you say that? Have you considered a social media detox? You’re on TikTok, right? Maybe taper off of that one at least, and widen your web to Tea and Instagram (if applicable) if symptoms don’t improve. Bc whatever’s going on there definitely isn’t healthy, but recognizing a problem puts you a step in the right direction at least

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Anonymous 5w

Is he the type of person that just generally doesn’t prefer to talk on the phone? Or is he just generally uncommunicative?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

He doesn’t rly like to talk on the phone which for the most part I’m understanding of but we’ve been long distance for about 6 months now and without phone calls it feels like we’re internet dating and we’re obviously not

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I was primarily upset that the day we were finally gonna see each other has been pushed back and it kinda threw everything off but instead of being upset ab that I just was suddenly upset ab everything bc like, I can’t see u when we were gonna AND u don’t wanna talk?? Even tho that was not what was happening

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

I’ve been saying things like that since I learned how to talk I just tend to talk like that. Idk if it’s a TikTok thing but honestly I don’t rly use social media that much I use this bc it’s completely anon but I’m mostly just commenting on ppls stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I wasn’t talking about your word choice lol, I meant the sudden compulsion to start a fight with him

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

I mean i didn’t think in my head “hmm lemme start a fight” it was more that i was being unnecessarily combative and defensive which certainly appears and shares traits with purposely starting a fight

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 5w

I was genuinely upset ab the fact that he didn’t get why not talking on the phone mattered to me and it did in the moment feel like he didn’t know or understand me at all. It’s that if I took a step back and deep breath I could see that I was doing too much. I wish him and I didn’t butt heads over talking on the phones 4 years in but that doesn’t mean I brought it up just so we could butt heads over it

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