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Analyze My Texts 2w
My bf of over a year told me that he’s no longer in love with me, but he still loves and cares for me. I don’t know what to do because I’m still so in love, but I saw him today and felt almost nothing but sadness. I’m lost and don’t know what to do
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Anonymous 2w

imagine what it would take for you to say that to your boyfriend. How little you'd have to care about him and his feelings to tell him straight to his face you don't love him. Imagine how done you'd have to be with that relationship. 99.9% chance that is exactly how he feels about you, the only reason he isn't breaking up is because he feels scared of being alone or wants something from you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

you definitely want to talk to him and make sure there isn't a misunderstanding (he's saying he's not in love with you because he's out of the limerance phase, or maybe he's been very depressed lately and his emotions are lesser overall.) But Ultimately you probably are gonna have to break things off. It'll take time and it'll hurt, but a one sided love is no love at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

We talking about it last night, a lot of tears on both sides, he is a child of divorce and from what I know it wasn’t a good one. He’s worried about ending up like that. He’s mentioned how I’ve done nothing and it’s all him and mental blocks he had. We’re gonna take time and figure it out. He was upset and sad that he hurt me so badly and I think we both wanna work through this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I'm so glad you two talked it out sorry for being pessimistic, I hope things turn out really well for the two of you!!

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