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Analyze My Texts 8w
okay so guy i’ve known for nine years and we have immense chemistry. we’ve been seeing each other romantically since march. we’ve been distant recently and went a week without talking. he calls me randomly, i had to hang up, said i’d call back and didn’t.
7 upvotes, 7 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Analyze My Texts. "okay so guy i’ve known for nine years and we have immense chemistry. we’ve been seeing each other romantically since march. we’ve been distant recently and went a week without talking. he calls me randomly, i had to hang up, said i’d call back and didn’t."
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Anonymous 7w

My take? Insecure man baby/anxious attachment style. Otherwise he’s definitely got something on his mind.

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Anonymous 6w

i mean like why didnt u call him back tho, like more context?? he seemed anxious and couldve been avoided

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

i’ll take any answers at this rate. i don’t understand it. i thought he was an avoidant attachment but interesting you say anxious

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

100% anxious

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

you can have more than one attachment style! like someone may be generally avoidant but have an anxious attachment with one specific person in their life. as someone who's avoidant if I were feeling rejected I probably wouldn't have texted at all and might've lightly ghosted, so I agree with #1 this reads as anxious attachment and also a lot of immaturity

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

we haven’t spoken since he said that on friday. should i reach back out if he’s an anxious? i’m also an anxious but i know the ball is in my court but the way he ended it was bad. he has a lot of insecurities and he’s prideful to it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I mean he was pretty rude to you over what seems like an honest mistake. someone being anxious doesn't stop them from an asshole and it's not your responsibility to try to ease his anxiety when he can't even communicate his fears in a healthy way. so obviously it's totally up to you! but I would maybe wait on an apology first

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