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”sorry i had work, we’ve got to hang out sometime soon!” ”life happens! yes definitely!!” ”awesome, lmk what your next few weeks look like and we can try to make some plans!” read for a week. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN.
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Anonymous 6w

life happened again. I've been on both sides of this, it's could be a sign that your friendship is becomming less importsnt to them, but 9/10 they're just stressed and busy and tired out of their kind

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Anonymous 6w

Try offering a designated time and place to hang out. Like “want to grab coffee Saturday afternoon?” Sometimes the time-consuming nature of having to think about your entire schedule and offer up free times to another person delays a response. If they can’t do “coffee” on Saturday, they’ll likely counter with an alternative

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Anonymous 6w

for some added context, this isn’t a dating app either. it’s someone i know irl and see frequently.

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Anonymous 4w

It could just genuinely be that things are happening in their life like family/personal issues, school/work things, other possible relationship (friends, etc.) issues, etc etc This happens all the time with ppl I know irl all the time and I’ve been on both sides of this lol, just make sure you’re there for them if they do make plans/want to talk about anything if you want but I would also say don’t be overbearing because that can feel stressful on top of dealing with any possible issues

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

*mind not kind

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

should i double text ? i think my biggest fear is trying to figure out how to reignite the conversation…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

As a general rule, I’m not against double texting. They’re a friend. If you’d already sent an invitation like the one I recommended above and then tried to do the exact same thing again, THAT wouldn’t be recommended, but this is different enough I think it’s fine.

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