Ngl maybe this is a bad call but I’d leave him

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Nah this is odd asf. He’s definitely maladjusted

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Unless he’s a survivor coping with the trauma it makes no sense and is not appropriate

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Yeah no, you could maybe attempt to justify “edgy humor” ( I imagine he would try to justify it that way), but that’s immature, and embarrassing. Edgelords are not funny, they are 10-15 years old, and if a Man, as in adult, still thinks that’s funny, that’s both embarassing and concerning. But also, being desensitized to that sort of thing, and saying that knowing you are a victim, is nasty, sometimes people treat you based off of what you tolerate, don’t date people like that

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My family had Easter early this year and my uncle whole heartedly believes in rule by force tried to convince me. The trumpers learn to articulate their view points but they aren’t articulate. I’ll rule by force when it’s convenient and appropriate. It sounds like this dude legitimately believes that using force to take what he wants is appropriate. To quote my old gf’s mom “lil truth in every joke”

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Yes it is, I had a guy friend that always made jokes like that and then one day called my dad @3am and threatened to 🍇 me so pls be careful

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Nah girl run. He’s obviously okay with making you uncomfortable and I don’t like that in general, but making rape jokes is extra fucked up. It’s not a funny topic, and it’s concerning that the subject of rape doesn’t make him uncomfortable at all.

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Long-term SA survivor here. Break up with him. If you have talked to him about your boundaries and he isn’t respecting it, think about your future with him. If he can’t do it now, he will push boundaries later and do something detrimental to your relationship. Keep your peace.

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My ex made 2 rape jokes to me and I RAN, if they’re comfortable enough to joke about it, they’re comfortable enough to do it

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Leave that mfer now for your own safety

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Baby please break up with him IMMEDIATELY I am so serious

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if you stay with him something is wrong with you

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Girl dump him

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Break up with him wtf

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There’s no bigger red flag I can think off than finding rape funny, GIRL RUN

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This post honestly shows lack of respect for yourself and is embarrassing if u even have to ask. If u wanna stay living in a victim mentality bc it’s easier than do it but don’t ask stupid questions like that

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…. are u slow or slow

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girl if you don’t leave him… 😒😒

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OP is pathetic and needs to grow tf up or stfu bc what kinda fucking person asks if making grape jokes is okay? Do h have any common sense or do u lack all the brain cells? You’re fuckin stupid and pathetic and probably just as gross as your bf. I bet you’re still with him. U get that pedo cock girl yessss

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Hey guys I need advice? So my roommate prints pictures of ppl being graped and hangs them up on are wall should I do something or just leave them up? That’s what u sound like OP ur a dumb fucking person and this is why I don’t have faith in humanity bc so many ppl just lack respect for themselves

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Tbh depends on what it is. Like obv if they make you comfortable and he keeps going that’s a red flag but like a lot of gamers or just like people on discord say wild things without any actual meaning behind it. Like I said depends on what exactly it is but if you feel that way you are more and justified. I see a lot of people here just immediately saying he is evil when like…that could not be the case. However only you know the most about your situation. If you feel uncomfortable leave

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