
Not trying to be mean but there is no point. No one cares. People care about you being gay as much as they care I mowed my lawn before the rain. I think what you’re looking for is affirmation that it’s ok to feel and think the way you do. It’s totally ok and if you upset others it’s because they are insecure with themselves. Not your problem. You do you man and have fun! No shame or need to write a letter. Dm me if you want to.
If you still want to come out to people I’ve found it helpful to write down what you want to say in your notes app and then say it in person. That way you get the best of both worlds: It’s written out clearly so you won’t lose track of what you want to say and you can use it as a crutch when you’re nervous. But you can also improvise and allow comments so it’s not a dump of words for someone to read.