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If I’m closeted trans (ftm) and attracted to men, would I be considered straight until I transition? Or am I still considered gay?
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Anonymous 10w

you're already a man, transitioning doesn't change who you are it just makes it clearer

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Anonymous 9w

if you see yourself as a man and you like men than ur gay. if you still feel/think of it self as a woman than ur straight

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Anonymous 9w

you don’t need to transition to be valid 🫶

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Anonymous 9w

Live your truth. I worry that if you consider being “straight” until you transition, your partner wouldn’t actually love you for exactly who you are. Maybe you’ll get lucky and find the perfect guy before you transition but it might be harder on you if he sees you as anything but a guy. If the label of “gay” still doesn’t feel right then maybe labels don’t need to apply to you. I don’t put any labels on my sexuality but I’m also in a gay relationship with my ftm boyfriend.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

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