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AITA for going out of my way to flirt with my boyfriend because I overheard someone talking about asking him out on a date?
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Anonymous 18h

nope

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Anonymous 17h

No. Not at all. But if you felt like you had to do this to keep him, why keep him? In my opinion you kinda missed an opportunity to see his real character in the dating stage but u didn't do anything wrong.

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Anonymous 14h

What did I even read

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

The further context is that the person who I overheard is an annoying “pick me” and I just wanted to shove it in her face that he’s mine.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Still doesnt rlly change my answer. I would inquire as to why the annoying pick me is even in your life.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

In fact thats an opportunity to see how he handles stuff like this and if you want him to change, have a talk with him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

My boyfriend is her boss and technically my coworker. That’s the only reason she is in our life.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Just makes it more of a reason to see how he handles it and discuss with him how you feel about how he handled it. Then again, you said it was only a rumor but if she doesnt think that he would entertain any advancement she wouldnt try. Thats why you have to help him squash it on the spot and not take it on yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Cuz if you dont do it that way, shell just wait for you to be sick or something to start making her moves.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

1) Never said it was a rumor. I heard her talking to her friend and say she was going to ask him out. 2) I’ve seen him reject people before while dating me. I am not worried about his reaction.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Oh ok. Does she know yall are dating?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

She does now.

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