She also admitted that if the rolls were reversed… she’d be mad at me soo I’m kind of at a loss

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umm NTA. imo, with how long they were together, its not ok for her to hold on to romantic items like that when she is with someone else.

11

NTA I think this is a little weird for her to keep. Maybe if it was just like someone she didn’t date seriously, then I guess? But if it was someone serious?? That’s odd.

8

nta as a girl the second i left my ex all the shit i had gotten while with him immediately became repulsive

7

I can’t say shit, I still sleep w the weighted dino my ex got me. Not bc I miss him/want him back but more so bc a lot of nights it was one of the few things that brought me peace. I’ve stitched legs back on and slowly flattened him a bit but at the end of the day it’s still one of my favorite comfort items. Not saying your gf and I feel the same way about our stuffies and not saying you’re in the wrong but maybe it’s just a vulnerable conversation she doesn’t have the words for rn

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Only solution I see here is if you get a different plushie idfk…. That is weird I would not be attatched to a plushie an ex gives me like you’re actually valid for this and you seem so nice and understanding 🩷

2

go buy her a raccoon

1

Get her a new one instead of complaining? Like literally just go on Amazon and find another cute raccoon from YOU instead of this smh.

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