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Told a girl that she disappears on me every time she starts talking to a new man. She proceeded to get pissed because i told her to quit using me as an attention farm in the middle moments and blocked me on everything
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Anonymous 19h

Very common

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Anonymous 18h

That is such pick-me behavior on her end. I hope you don’t have to deal with that nonsense anymore, but I have a feeling that she’ll come crawling back the next time she gets her heart broken. Sometimes people forget that platonic and romantic relationships can be upkept all at once—it’s not that hard.

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Anonymous 18h

Good for you. Protect your energy.

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Anonymous 17h

KING status

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Anonymous 17h

Yep, felt that

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Anonymous 17h

Not the ahole bc if she was a real friend she’d still talk to you even tho she’s in a relationship. Yes it may not be as often, but at least make an effort keep a connection with you as a friend. It rlly shows her colors tbh.

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Anonymous 16h

I was best friends with this person and we hung out all the time, slept in the same bed, cuddled, then they got a boyfriend and basically we only hung out when he was busy. Even after they broke up our friendship is not the same because I know now that I’m not very important to them.

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Anonymous 51m

💀💀💀 Good riddance

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Anonymous 20h

I think the approach should've been different. You arent wrong for feeling distance at times like these but u cant just mandate she acts different. Its also normal for friends in relationships to not talk as frequently because of the relationship.

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Anonymous 21h

Yeah you are, when people meet someone and get into a relationship with them it takes up their time. A true friend wouldn’t care and would be happy for them. Speaks to your selfishness.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Ever thought of not being dumb?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

Did you even read my comment or do you lack the capability to do so?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

Ur dumb

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

You talk like you’re in 3rd grade

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

And u sound like u get mad at 3rd graders

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20h

Oh my god, I guess that means you are in 3rd grade. I’m so sorry buddy, I know it must be hard to try and engage in rational discourse online at your age. You should probably avoid discussions like these until you are capable of understanding them. Go give the phone back to your parents and apologize to them for stealing it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h
post
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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

I got u to type a whole paragraph cuz I called u dumb lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20h

I only said something because this was the 4th time it’s happened. You’re probably right though my approach coulda been better

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

If this is the 4th time I feel like it’s valid, you’re allowed to be upset or angry at a repeated behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1h

Tbh I’m on 1’s side solely bc you have zero argument, you just insulted them and then toyed with them. Idk just doesn’t seem like the time and place to randomly rage bait someone

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