AITA on Sidechat | AITA: I’m having a bunch of friends staying over at my house for lollapolooza. One of my friends asked if her 30 yr old bf can stay also (we’re all 18-19 yr old girls) I obv said no. She’s pissed now saying she’s not coming and I’m rude. What do I do??

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AITA: I’m having a bunch of friends staying over at my house for lollapolooza. One of my friends asked if her 30 yr old bf can stay also (we’re all 18-19 yr old girls) I obv said no. She’s pissed now saying she’s not coming and I’m rude. What do I do??

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Anonymous 17h

Let her figure it out herself, that’s a hard nope

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Anonymous 16h

The 30 y/o man can hang out with his own friends, leave the children alone

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Anonymous 17h

Oh hell no I would never allow him. Fucking pedo. I hope to god she’s ok. I know people who had such a large age gap relationship at an early age and regretted it severely

Anonymous 17h

NTA she literally asked... bc she knows it's weird for a 30 year old man to hang out with a bunch of 18-19 yr old girls... and she's mad you have boundaries for your event at your house? lol wild

Anonymous 17h

Her 30 year old man can get an Airbnb. Now that I’m older (25) don’t allow your friends to put you in danger

Anonymous 12h

Also yall this isn’t like a trip or anything im actually from Chicago and this is my real house. My college friends who are coming into town are staying with me so they don’t need to get a hotel or air bnb. Is going to be like air mattresses and shit. So like that’s even weirder that he wants to come sleep in a room on an air mattress with a bunch of teenage girls…..

Anonymous 16h

It’s your house. It’s you’re not okay with a 30 year old man (or anyone) in your house. Then say no, it’s up to you❤️

Anonymous 13h

And id just be okay with her not coming like what

Anonymous 17h

Leave her lmao

Anonymous 13h

With the utmost respect as we obvi dont know the whole situation, you cant help people who dont want help, I wouldnt stay around this girl at all based on what youve said. Youre absolutely not the asshole but there really isnt anything for you to do. Its not your fault and frankly its not your problem. If she cant see that a) hes a pred and b) he has no right to anyone elses space that doesnt want him there, then the best thing to do is leave them both to their issues

Anonymous 10h

he can’t afford to get them somewhere to stay? OVERLY grown ass man btw…

Anonymous 10h

Even if it was a 19 yr old guy, itd still be valid for u to say no. It’s YOUR house and it’s perfectly sensible for u to only have people that you know and trust. In no universe would I have a stranger, a man also, and ALSO like 10yrs older than me in my house…

Anonymous 3h

She’s a psycho, excommunicated

Anonymous 2h

yeah she’s gotta learn this lesson on her own. hopefully it doesn’t take long

Anonymous

#1 17h

Ok right, I can’t even wrap my mind around how she could ask

Anonymous

#4 17h

And it’s a girl trip like tf

Anonymous

#6 16h

Or he could hang w his own children who would be closer in age to his child bride

Anonymous

#4 14h

lol she’s fine, she always goes for older guys. Once she had a 40 yr old rando from tinder meet us at a bar. I was so pissed

Anonymous

OP 13h

do you know if she was s-abused as a child?

Anonymous

#9 13h

She wasn’t but her parents were very absent

Anonymous

OP 13h

She also ended things w her first bf who she was with for like 3 years in may so she’s exploring or smth idek

Anonymous

#4 12h

Pedos are sexually attracted to kids, not adults. 18 and up is an adult. Age isn’t is big an issue here as the fact that this was evidently an all women’s trip and one of the women wanted to invite a male, that’s the real wtf in this

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Anonymous

#10 12h

I wouldn’t have an issue with her asking if he could stay if he was like a normal age. The issue is in fact that he is 12 years older than all of us. We’re going into our sophomore year of college. He graduated college when I was in 7th grade…..

Anonymous

#2 11h

child bride..? she’s an adult LOL

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Anonymous

#11 11h

Anonymous

#2 11h

LOL, someone doesn’t know how numbers work…

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Anonymous

#11 11h

I'm more confused about the math of a 30 year old having children that are closer to 18 than he is? he had a kid at 12?

Anonymous

#11 11h

Anonymous

#3 11h

No, 12 is closer to 19 than 30 is. If he had a kid at 18, the kid would be 12

Anonymous

#3 11h

where the fuck did the OP say the 30 y/o had a kid?

Anonymous

#2 11h

L rage bait, you’re wrong and it’s embarrassing

Anonymous

#11 11h

I’m confused too yall he has no kids 😭

Anonymous

#11 11h

not OP

Anonymous

#12 10h

That’s what I’m saying….

Anonymous

#10 13m

Fact: you’re not a pedophile for dating someone who is freshly 18. Also fact: pedophiles legally cannot get anyone under the age of 18. So yeah bro might not be a pedophile, but that is pretty fucking close and pretty fucking gross