AITA on Sidechat | AITA: I’m having a bunch of friends staying over at my house for lollapolooza. One of my friends asked if her 30 yr old bf can stay also (we’re all 18-19 yr old girls) I obv said no. She’s pissed now saying she’s not coming and I’m rude. What do I do??

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AITA: I’m having a bunch of friends staying over at my house for lollapolooza. One of my friends asked if her 30 yr old bf can stay also (we’re all 18-19 yr old girls) I obv said no. She’s pissed now saying she’s not coming and I’m rude. What do I do??

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Anonymous 8w

Let her figure it out herself, that’s a hard nope

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Anonymous 8w

The 30 y/o man can hang out with his own friends, leave the children alone

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Anonymous 8w

Oh hell no I would never allow him. Fucking pedo. I hope to god she’s ok. I know people who had such a large age gap relationship at an early age and regretted it severely

Anonymous 8w

NTA she literally asked... bc she knows it's weird for a 30 year old man to hang out with a bunch of 18-19 yr old girls... and she's mad you have boundaries for your event at your house? lol wild

Anonymous 8w

Also yall this isn’t like a trip or anything im actually from Chicago and this is my real house. My college friends who are coming into town are staying with me so they don’t need to get a hotel or air bnb. Is going to be like air mattresses and shit. So like that’s even weirder that he wants to come sleep in a room on an air mattress with a bunch of teenage girls…..

Anonymous 8w

Her 30 year old man can get an Airbnb. Now that I’m older (25) don’t allow your friends to put you in danger

Anonymous 8w

And id just be okay with her not coming like what

Anonymous 8w

he can’t afford to get them somewhere to stay? OVERLY grown ass man btw…

Anonymous 8w

Leave her lmao

Anonymous 8w

With the utmost respect as we obvi dont know the whole situation, you cant help people who dont want help, I wouldnt stay around this girl at all based on what youve said. Youre absolutely not the asshole but there really isnt anything for you to do. Its not your fault and frankly its not your problem. If she cant see that a) hes a pred and b) he has no right to anyone elses space that doesnt want him there, then the best thing to do is leave them both to their issues

Anonymous 8w

Even if it was a 19 yr old guy, itd still be valid for u to say no. It’s YOUR house and it’s perfectly sensible for u to only have people that you know and trust. In no universe would I have a stranger, a man also, and ALSO like 10yrs older than me in my house…

Anonymous 8w

yeah she’s gotta learn this lesson on her own. hopefully it doesn’t take long

Anonymous 8w

It’s not her home not her choice ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Anonymous 8w

She’s a psycho, excommunicated

Anonymous 8w

not on u. she wont come then. that’s insane. one of my friends has an older bf and he wanted to come to our dorm party one time. hard no!! it’s a girl hangout. i don’t know your bf and he doesn’t need to come to something like that…we can all meet him another time like it’s not that difficult to not be around ur bf for a night let alone a 30 year old man

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Anonymous

#1 8w

Ok right, I can’t even wrap my mind around how she could ask

Anonymous

#4 8w

And it’s a girl trip like tf

Anonymous

#6 8w

Or he could hang w his own children who would be closer in age to his child bride

Anonymous

#4 8w

lol she’s fine, she always goes for older guys. Once she had a 40 yr old rando from tinder meet us at a bar. I was so pissed

Anonymous

OP 8w

do you know if she was s-abused as a child?

Anonymous

#9 8w

She wasn’t but her parents were very absent

Anonymous

OP 8w

She also ended things w her first bf who she was with for like 3 years in may so she’s exploring or smth idek

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Anonymous 8w

I wouldn’t have an issue with her asking if he could stay if he was like a normal age. The issue is in fact that he is 12 years older than all of us. We’re going into our sophomore year of college. He graduated college when I was in 7th grade…..

Anonymous

#2 8w

child bride..? she’s an adult LOL

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Anonymous

#2 8w

LOL, someone doesn’t know how numbers work…

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Anonymous

#11 8w

I'm more confused about the math of a 30 year old having children that are closer to 18 than he is? he had a kid at 12?

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Anonymous

#3 8w

No, 12 is closer to 19 than 30 is. If he had a kid at 18, the kid would be 12

Anonymous

#3 8w

where the fuck did the OP say the 30 y/o had a kid?

Anonymous

#2 8w

L rage bait, you’re wrong and it’s embarrassing

Anonymous

#11 8w

I’m confused too yall he has no kids 😭

Anonymous

#11 8w

not OP

Anonymous

#12 8w

That’s what I’m saying….

Anonymous 8w

Fact: you’re not a pedophile for dating someone who is freshly 18. Also fact: pedophiles legally cannot get anyone under the age of 18. So yeah bro might not be a pedophile, but that is pretty fucking close and pretty fucking gross

Anonymous 8w

Do you thinks creeps just magically become interested in girls the second they turn 18. No, they don’t care how old they are, they just know that they won’t be arrested if they’re 18. It’s even worse for girls who look younger than they actually are because that’s what the creeps are interested in. And they might be legal adults but they’re still TEENAGERS

Anonymous

#11 8w

she’s just barely over half his age.. and a teenager… but yeah no she’s not his child bride and he is not a predator for being into someone freshly out of highschool as a man nearly old enough to have a teenaged child himself… not to mention the fact that he would be staying with a large group of other barely legal girls. ew.

Anonymous 8w

I didn’t post on Reddit lolll