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AITA For not being "friendly" to my friend's bf? I hate him, he's a dick. It's her life though so I hate from afar and be nice when they're together. My friend thinks it's rude that I blocked him online and didn't add him as a contact in a groupchat
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Anonymous 7w

And I want to preface that I don't even shit talk him to her. I'm always there for her when he pisses her off but I don't badmouth him when they're fine. She really likes him for some reason and as long as he doesn't get abusive, I keep my thoughts to myself and our other friends who also hate him.

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Anonymous 7w

Nta, you don’t need to like him if he’s a weird

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Anonymous 7w

sounds like you are being cordial with him so idk how much more she can ask for lol

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Anonymous 7w

It’s a bestie’s job to be kind of mean and suspicious of their friends boyfriend. They gotta vet him. My bestie’s type is an older version of my brother 🤢 so we’ll probably bicker a lot. I also know when it comes to my boyfriend he’ll have to earn her regard which will be an uphill battle which is fine. If he can’t survive her he’ll never survive my mother.

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Anonymous 6w

Blocking him is a bit rude (unless he did something). But everything else is fine.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Nah, that friend though should respect you don’t need the bf as a friend to be real friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

*weirdo

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Plus, a person shows you who they are through adversity. Do they try and isolate you from the friend that is cordial but not expressive & fawning over them? 🚩Just like when there’s problems with a waiter, or you have change or cancel plans, how they react to situations is a deciding factor in whether they should be a partner or not.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

Eh, that's what he gets for being rude in general

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