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AITA 21w
AITA/Overreacting if I broke up with my bf since he keeps making “jokes” about my weight during sex? He’s called me the Pilsbury Doughboy, Eric Cartman, Bubble Bass etc. and just laughs it off and normally I have thick skin and can laugh it off but-
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Anonymous 21w

chile, LEAVE HIM!

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Anonymous 21w

I’m that’s actually disgusting in general, during sex makes it worse DROP THAT NIGGAUUUHHHH

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Anonymous 21w

He’s trying to erode your self esteem so you won’t be able to leave him. You need to leave

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Anonymous 21w

It’s getting too much at this point, I’ve tried talking to him about it but he just says it’s a joke and “I know he isn’t serious”.

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Anonymous 21w

Tell him how it makes you feel and if he doesn’t change then leave

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Anonymous 21w

Your boyfriend is hilarious but yeah break up with him

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Anonymous 21w

Absolutely the fuck not. Breaking up with him was the humane thing to do, I would’ve been in jail. I am so sorry that you put up with someone who literally didn’t make you feel sexy during sex and said those awful things instead.

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Anonymous 21w

If you’re determined to stay with him, tell him it turns you off and you’ll stop banging.

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Anonymous 21w

Omg are you the person from that new smosh pit reddit episode??? OP’s bf did the same thing and even pulled out a Penguin meme (Batman) during sex to laugh at! Probably not but it’s crazy how often this happens

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Anonymous 21w

Girl get outta there

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

i wouldn’t even bother trying to communicate if i were you OP, just leave 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 21w

He's fucking funny 😭 You need to stop seeing him tho, he don't know how to act

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

Stop if you’ve alr talked to him abt it and he just brushes it off when you’re clearly upset by it he’s projecting and being a bitch to you on purpose, that’s totally not overreacting especially if it’s actually making you feel bad abt yourself. Tell that mf to cut it out or you’re done, and when he does it again throw him away

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 21w

But yeah no, not overreacting

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Anonymous 21w

It’s not gaslighting, it’s negging

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Anonymous 21w

I mean you’re correct about the distorting part but gaslighting is a long term form of abuse where the perpetrator psychologically manipulates the victim into doubting their own sanity or perception of reality. It’s not brushing something off or minimizing an issue, or simply lying. Much more serious

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 20w

I haven’t watched Smosh since middle school but this comment made me pull up what you were talking about and the reaction from the cast as well as everyone here has comforted me a lot and made me feel comfortable enough to start leaving (it’s going to take a bit since we live together) but yeah absolutely INSANE that this has happened to another woman 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

It probably means nothing coming from a stranger on the internet but I’m really proud of you. No matter what pace you go at, progress is progress and you’re doing it!

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