Anonymous #1 6w

people disliking you doesn’t necessarily mean they’re victimizing you

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Anonymous #2 6w

Man I’ve been bullied so many times for being autistic don’t even start

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Anonymous #1 6w

Look I get yall are mad but you’re kind of proving my point I’ve been put down by a lot of different people because I don’t understand social cues, my sense of humor is “weird”, I talk funny, etc. It’s not that autistic people are the problem though This was supposed to be funny but yall are taking it way too serious 😪

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Anonymous #5 6w

damn imagine using this to be a bigot

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Anonymous #4 6w

I’ve had 2/6 terrible roommates. Am I the problem

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Anonymous #7 6w

And in that case, it’s up to you to recognize that and work through it. When you knowingly, repeatedly, and consistently get in these situations and make no effort to heal, you can’t expect it to go away- someone who did that a LOT before taking accountability

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Anonymous #10 6w

Sounds a bit victim blamey

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Anonymous #11 6w

I think one of the worst things you can do for victims is enable the behaviors that dig them into deeper holes. To truly care for someone is to want what’s best for them. The experiences that make you a victim are in NO WAY the person’s fault, but they also can’t just sit and do nothing and expect things to get better. When you love a drug addict you don’t say, “wow this addiction sucks and is really taking over your life,” and then leave it. You push them to get better for their own wellbeing.

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Anonymous #10 6w

Agreed, but calling them "the problem" isn't the way to go about it imo

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Anonymous #7 6w

This I can for sure agree with. Definitely not the best wording for this situation.

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Anonymous #5 5w

this is a case where you're the problem

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