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AITA for feeling good abt myslf when I see young girls marry? reminds me that I’m not committing myself & get time to explore the world while some are stuck young n have to grow up sooner. I don’t look down on them, just feel proud of myself for waiting
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Anonymous 5w

You’re nta for feeling good about your choices…you are kind ta for putting other girls down on a choice that they made. Some people get married young and are perfectly happy. They just get to explore the world with their best friend next to them. Idk just my choice

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Anonymous 5w

NTA just misguided thinking you need to compare yourself to them. Some people find the right person earlier

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Anonymous 5w

No, because I feel the same way. If they wanna get married at 18 with someone they have been with for 6 months then go for it! I enjoy waiting and saving my money so I can travel around and see the world before I settle down

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Anonymous 5w

I’m 20 and married (got married at 19) and never once have I looked at another woman my age or older and thought oh I’m proud of myself for not doing what they are doing. We all have our courses in this life and everyone has different experiences. Getting married was the best decision I’ve ever made. I get to continue to go to school, work on my career, travel, not worry about finances (DINKs), and be with the love of my life every single day. But that’s just my experience 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Real. I’m definitely happy for them! Just also reminds me that I’m living the life that I want because I see them doing something that I don’t want at the moment

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I love that for you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

This is my dream! I love this for you!!

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