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Someone who knew it was my birthday, and I considered one of my best friends, didn't wish me a happy birthday. He even saw my Instagram story. I'm pretty conflicted. We were undergrad friends (now freshly postgrad). Do I drop him? He's bipolar type 2
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Anonymous 23h

Dropping a friend just for not wishing you a happy birthday is a bit much. Life changes post grad, just because someone doesn’t reach out doesn’t mean they don’t care about you anymore. Give them some grace and try reaching out another time, you never know if someone is having a rough day or is just busy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

I think the major issue with him is that he also hasn’t responded to my text asking how he is that I also sent a few weeks ago. He comes and goes a lot when he goes through manic and depressive episodes, and I’ve been patient for a few years. But he’s almost acting passive aggressive and I don’t know if it’s a personal issue or something with me.

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