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Is it bad that it lowkey annoys me that none of my college friends are willing to drink/smoke or generally do anything exciting?
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Anonymous 3w

If all the excitement you get is from that then yeah it’s kinda lame on you

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Anonymous 3w

You don’t have to stop being friends with them or be bitter just because they don’t like doing the same things you do. Try branching out and meeting more people who you could potentially hang out with in the way that you want

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Anonymous 3w

Find a seep group to do that with also

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Anonymous 2w

Yes it’s bad. Your friends don’t need to do those things to have fun with you. I know many people who love partying, but hate using substances. So they just usually drive or come hang out. It only becomes lame when you offer them something, they say no, and then you act like an asshole for THEM not wanting to do your drug of choice. Some people are like that. It’s fine. And if it’s not for you, you are a bad friend

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Anonymous 2w

Your friends are under no obligation to enjoy those things. If it really matters that much to you, make some additional friends who are interested in those things, but don’t cut off your other friends for not doing that with you and don’t pressure them either, but it doesn’t sound like you have been pressuring them. Just be respectful that not everyone enjoys the same activities

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