
Yes it’s bad. Your friends don’t need to do those things to have fun with you. I know many people who love partying, but hate using substances. So they just usually drive or come hang out. It only becomes lame when you offer them something, they say no, and then you act like an asshole for THEM not wanting to do your drug of choice. Some people are like that. It’s fine. And if it’s not for you, you are a bad friend
Your friends are under no obligation to enjoy those things. If it really matters that much to you, make some additional friends who are interested in those things, but don’t cut off your other friends for not doing that with you and don’t pressure them either, but it doesn’t sound like you have been pressuring them. Just be respectful that not everyone enjoys the same activities