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is nobody seeing the word celebrity in this post??😭 no way y’all are that insecure
AITA for having celebrity crushes and talking to someone I’m dating about them? Like I’ll send them things regarding their music or accomplishments cause I’m excited about it and every once in awhile I’ll talk abt their looks but is that bad?
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Anonymous 16w

I believe it unfortunately, I’ve had exes who got so weird about me pointing out a celebrity’s attractiveness before

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Anonymous 16w

Doesn’t matter to many. My ex asked me if I found Elvis attractive when we saw the Elvis movie in theaters. I told him I haven’t really thought about it, but he kept pressing. When I said he wasn’t my type, he didn’t believe me, and when I said I could see how he could be attractive, he started saying that I would choose Elvis over him even though I said I wouldn’t šŸ’€ There was no winning lmao

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Anonymous 16w

Aren’t celebs ppl too? Y everybody put them in a separate category šŸ˜‚

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

ppl r so weird my gosh😭 that’s like next level insecure idk you’d have to be lying to yourself to say you don’t find a single celebrity attractivešŸ’€im glad to hear they’re an ex lmfao u don’t need that kinda toxic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Fr my fiancĆ© and I now joke so much abt ā€œhall passesā€ bc they’re so absurd and never gonna happen. We also get in really heated debates about some celebrity crushes because one of us doesn’t see the vision šŸ˜‚ I tend to have weird ones since I’m mostly only attracted to personality, but he doesn’t get it, so he’ll clown on me for some of my crushes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

i’m the same way w my man lmfao i’ll even tease him when i see his crushing on a actress in a movie saying ā€œoooo you think she’s cuteeeeā€ idk it’s just not that serious to me lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

lol like i said in my reply to u on the other post: no one’s holding them higher than us it’s called being realistic babe. You could find a well known person attractive and still have the ability to recognize that you won’t be tg😭 Like you said celebrities are humans too meaning they have their own personal lives and if you really think you fall into that then i have some bad news for u babe

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Lol u missed my point babe. U can recognize u won’t be with someone that’s not an excuse to gawk at them and talk about how attracted u are to them in front of ur partner. Fawning over others in ur partners face and so much shit is deemed normal when in reality it’s just be cool wit getting disrespected or get called insecure. Good luck in your next relationship babe

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

oh my gosh as stated above it’s just not that serious and if you are truly upset that someone can be attracted to more than one human being u need help. like i said before my celeb crush is ryan reynolds does that mean i’ll ever be with him no? is my man grown enough to know it’s just a crush? yes😭😭 u seriously cant tell me you don’t find a single celebrity attractive and haven’t talked about it to someone grow up for real

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Lol u the one who seems madšŸ˜‚ and can u read? I alr said it’s normal to be attracted to ppl cuz it is but talking abt how hot they r and everything to ur man is just disrespectful but sry u cant see it hun, looks like im not the one who needs to grow up

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

not mad just concerned for the ppl in ur lifešŸ’€ like i said in my replies to the person above my man and i BOTH talk about celebs we find attractive cause it’s normal and to get offended over it makes you nothing less than insecure and immature.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

I mean just because it’s normalized doesn’t make it right. Ur so pressed like there’s nothing to be concerned about and I’m sure my man finds other ppl attractive but he doesn’t talk to me about it and I don’t either cuz it’s out of respect. We didn’t decide to do that it’s just how it is bcuz we share the same values and have actual conversations and r lives don’t revolve around ppl we don’t know😭. We have jobs so like we don’t spend all our time on ig.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

girl no one’s even brought up being mad but u which alr says a lot… if that’s what works for ur relationship than good for u but u seem more concerned with how you dislike that others actually are secure and comfortable talking bout those things which is pretty weird on ur end.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16w

I mean u felt the need to comment. So i decided to respond with my opinion. I don’t see how that’s weird. You came at me with the condescending attitude my original comment had no ill will. All I did was match your energy. That’s why you do seem mad lol. If you were secure abt it why respond defensively to my comment? Why even post at all then?

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