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my roommate just got out of a 2 year relationship ship days ago, is failing classes and constantly talks about how the breakup ruined her now all of the sudden she’s talking to a guy who’s friends with a guy who was stalking me and she knows that
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Anonymous 18h

im confused, it looks like there was more to this story? what are you asking if you were the asshole for doing?

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Anonymous 20h

Yes you are the asshole

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Anonymous 19h

You’re a weirdo

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

i just think she should focus on herself and not surround her life around a guy again

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

sorry tried working around the word count. so she was in a relationship since junior/senior year of hs (sophomores now) and they broke up a couple days ago and i was helping her though it, she talked about how they planned to get married and she was really upset over it as expected. as for the other part, i met this guy last year texting him for a while and he started getting weird, obsessive, showing up places and all that. i called it off told her about it and it stopped for the last few weeks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

she started texting this guy yesterday and was being all weird and secretive i was confused because she just got out of a relationship. then i pushed and she told me he’s friends with the guy i was talking to, and now he’s started to text me again? i just don’t know if i should say anything because i don’t think it’s a good idea

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

i'm still not sure what you're asking if you're the ah for, but its completely understandable to be weirded out. i don't think you've done anything? but i'd consider how good a friend she is and if she's putting you at risk in terms of your safety by possibly exposing you to the stalker

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

oh sorry just saw your new reply! it sounds like it might be good to take your distance from that group imo, at best they don't sound like healthy people and at worse your safety could be put at risk

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

i wasn’t sure if i was overreacting or not. thank you for the advice and reply 🙏🙏

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