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AITA for telling my bf that I am going to leave if he keeps choosing his friends over me? We’ve been dating for 2 also 3 years
24 upvotes, 10 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in AITA. "AITA for telling my bf that I am going to leave if he keeps choosing his friends over me? We’ve been dating for 2 also 3 years"
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Anonymous 1w

NTA for wanting to leave. He’s more interested in his friends, that can be a sign that he’s losing interest. Questions to ask yourself: how long has this been going on for? Are they long term friends or close friends? Did a new hit game recently come out? How often do you visit him compared to how often he visits you? He’s wrong & rude for calling you a toxic manipulative bitch for sure, but I wouldn’t call him an asshole for saying by itself.

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Anonymous 1w

girl run… the red flags here are insane. i know its so hard but imagine how much harder it will be in a year from now when it inevitably gets worse. him even being able to call you those words is unacceptable. then the excuses about money being lies??? no. 100% no. run.

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Anonymous 1w

“Toxic manipulating bitch” = breakup. Rip the bandaid off.

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Anonymous 1w

SAFTB

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Anonymous 1w

NTA. He obviously doesn’t understand how relationships work

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

He also apologized pretty quickly and stated that he’s going to work on things and try to be better, so I would see if he truly means that before calling him an asshole

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

He should definitely be on the hot seat after the insults though, even with an apology. Forgive but don’t forget.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Yes. This one issue means he obviously doesn’t understand how relationships work. But somehow made it 2-3 years in before OP realized that. Nah I doubt that, something probably changed or something was building up, or maybe something pissed him off then he came home and took it out on OP.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

She voiced her concerns and he didn’t respect her feelings. He doesn’t understand that’s an important part of a relationship. Listen to your partner if you care about them. Sure ppl can date each other for a while but the relationship won’t work if he doesn’t care to understand how she feels

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

She voiced her concerns when he was unreasonably mad about a small thing. People do and say unreasonable things when they’re unreasonably mad. If this is not a common thing for him, and she jumps to “he doesn’t respect me” I think that’s a rash deduction. If he’s like that often, then yeah, I agree, he’s doesn’t respect her. But this one post does not convey how often

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