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I asked my roommate if they could talk with their boyfriend to find a way for his baby to be quieter cause anytime the kid is over (split custody) and now they call me bully and haven’t quieted down, more context below
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Anonymous 3d

So I texted her asking and she said along the lines of “I don’t know how to respond to this you resigned the lease you knew what you were getting into” mind you he moved in like a few weeks before the lease needed to be resigned and also why do I have to move because someone doesn’t respect they live with other people. We’ve gotten notes on our door from neighbors about the noise and I’m not exaggerating when I say crying and screaming all day, like I’ve walked out and he’s just playing COD

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Anonymous 2d

this seems like a tricky situation, while i understand she’s of the belief you knew what you were getting into, it sounds like the boyfriend is not doing what needs to be done. Is the noise any better when she’s home? If that’s the case, maybe the convo is about the boyfriend’s lack of care/attention to the child rather than the child itself?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

While the kid is crying on the floor

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

No she thinks it’s fun unfortunately and has gotten into the “be loud out of spite” mindset

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

And the kid isn’t the issue he’s a kid, it’s fully the parents

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