- even though I begged for one every year. This year they have gorgeous instrumental music and the senior (who has only done it for three years and only knows the basics) got an entire feature part and the show is basically all about her. Is it bad that im like super jealous and kind of mad that they get a good show the year after I graduate even though I begged them for a pretty show for like five years?

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My hs band director used a show idea my grade had been pitching since we were freshman and a bunch of specific song requests across all their performances the year after my class graduated 🥲 I genuinely think he meant it as a tribute kind of thing but the actual result is more aligned with your situation where we just kinda felt left out and disrespected, definitely NTA and Im sorry that happened

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I was also in guard in high school and I was the only senior in the entire history of our program to not get a senior solo/duo/group feature with the other seniors because the coach didn’t like me. I was heartbroken because I was in a leadership position and the only one to consistently show up to every rehearsal on time and lead them when my coach wasn’t there, and I was one of two people that did it all four years. I later found out the part was written for me but they wrote me out

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You deserve so much better

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Nah what the heck thats evil

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