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i have been long distance w my partner from october 2024 to november 1 2025 and we moved in together. i waited months for him to overcome his trust issues and trauma so that he might think i actually wanted to commit to him but i broke the one boundary…
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Anonymous 5w

Honestly it’s time to let go. You can’t fix something if someone else does not want to fix it with you. It will be hard and you will need to mourn ur time together but u will be fine after a while. Focus on you and not him 🩷

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Anonymous 5w

he had in august. we stayed together. our mental states have gone downhill and i had another manic episode and psychotic episode that put me in the hospital the first week of december. i’ve been mean and rude and snappy and irritable since. and i took it out on him. he wants to leave. he says it’d be best for both of us. but i love him so much i just know i can be different. he doesn’t want to try relationship counseling. he doesn’t want to wait for me anymore. but it doesn’t seem fair

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

because i waited for him for so long. how do i make things right? he can’t trust me bc ive promised id be kind every day after the hospital but i haven’t changed. i didn’t realize how serious it was until now. i don’t know how to fix it

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