AITA on Sidechat | Me and bf split rent equally so we also split chores equally, but whenever I don’t want to do something (like cooking or cleaning) I’ll purposely initiate sex so he’s in a good mood and offers to do it himself… AITA?

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AITA 5w

Me and bf split rent equally so we also split chores equally, but whenever I don’t want to do something (like cooking or cleaning) I’ll purposely initiate sex so he’s in a good mood and offers to do it himself… AITA?

Anonymous 5w

its manipulative. i would try not to do it bc even if u dont see the effects rn its going to have an impact on the trust & security in ur relationship long-term especially if he were to ever find out that that was why u initiated sex. it would leave him feeling insecure & wondering if u ever actually want sex w him or if ur just doing it to get him to do smth else

Anonymous 5w

oh noo he gets laid and in his pure joy, completes a task that benefits both of you?🫨🫨 how will he ever live?? nta just smart

Anonymous 5w

I’m doing this THANK YOU

Anonymous 5w

this is def lowk manipulative 😭 but errrr its not a huge deal u just shouldnt do it for anything else and avoid like conflicts and stuff

Anonymous 5w

kind of? i mean its manipulative but like go you i guess 😭

Anonymous 5w

That’s genius but fairly manipulative

Anonymous 5w

nta

Anonymous 5w

More of a hooker who is paid in household chores but if you’re comfortable with it 🤷🏻‍♂️

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Anonymous

#5 5w

You’re right. I don’t know if this makes me any less of an asshole, but I don’t ever ask him to do my chore after sex? He volunteers to do it himself without any of my prompting. And if he doesn’t volunteer, I don’t bring it up and just do whatever it is I didn’t want to do. My bf has genuinely no idea that I’m initiating sex because of this, but you’re right that it’s manipulative

Anonymous

OP 5w

i dont think the fact that u dont ask him impacts anything bc u went into the act of sex w the intention of it altering his behavior afterwards which is the manipulative part & what would be the problem

Anonymous

#8 5w

that emoji adds up 😷