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Aita for telling my bf to shower? He was traveling all weekend, hasn’t showered in three days, and i’m a shower everyday kind of person. He wanted to cuddle and didn’t wanna shower till late tonight, but i said HECK NO go shower now. hes upset with me now
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Anonymous 6d

My fiancé eats a lot of garlic and onion and sometimes I have to gently tell him to brush his teeth before we make out. He understands completely so I feel like you’re NTA here

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Anonymous 5d

NTA. That’s gross my guy.

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Anonymous 5d

You’re not an asshole for expecting a grown ass man to take care of himself I actually broke up with someone over it

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Anonymous 5d

I feel like it depends on delivery! Like it’s reasonable to want someone to shower, but esp depending on how you requested it, it’s reasonable for him to feel upset about it, even if you were right to say it. Like saying “can you please shower before you cuddle” and “ew gross go shower” are different imo

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Anonymous 5d

Especially if he was traveling he should shower

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Anonymous 5d

….. he doesn’t shower daily? Sis I shower twice a day. This is gross.

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Anonymous 5d

he should be happy ur telling him and not letting him stank lmao

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Anonymous 4d

He’s TA for not having basic hygiene

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Anonymous 4d

yeah so wait why hasn't he showered 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

After 3 DAYS? I think if any request to shower, no matter how it’s worded is justified.

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