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WIBTA for waiting to be official until after he meets my friends? We both really like each other but after the last guy, I feel like I need my friends to get a vibe check on him cause I am way too trusting.
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Anonymous 3w

I would vibe check, sometimes friends and family can pick up on things you’re blind to because of your feelings for someone. Their opinion isn’t the end all be all but I don’t think waiting hurts! If he’s the right one he won’t care.

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Anonymous 3w

ur friends aren’t the ones dating him u are and ppl will always give an opinion that doesn’t mean u can’t form your own babe ur not the asshole but if you can’t trust yourself to be with a good person then maybe take a break from dating til u can

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Anonymous 3w

The board of directors always has to agree lmao

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Anonymous 3w

Nta seems like things have been good so far and you want them to meet before you fully commit and if they pick up on anything you can keep that in mind. I think that’s fine.

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Anonymous 3w

Waiting until he meets them? No, nta. Giving them veto authority? Yes, yta. And that’s putting it mildly. Like, SO much ta. Like, permanently kick you out of the gene pool for peeing it ta

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Anonymous 3w

Yta, ur a big girl make your own decisions

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

well that’s a lil dramatic lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

This!!!

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