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am i the asshole if i stop texting my roommate first? since we moved out I have texted her first every single time and she just gives me dry responses she never texts me first and i’m sick of putting in effort that’s not reciprocated
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Anonymous 9w

Nah

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Anonymous 9w

I understand your frustration; you go out of your way to have a relationship, but you can’t expect things from people because they will never reciprocate. It gets to a point, and you shouldn’t even feel the need to ask this question. Don’t make it a big deal, you tried, and once you meet a friend who tries as much as you, it’ll be a beautiful and genuine relationship.

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Anonymous 9w

She probably wondering when you going to stop texting her😭

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Anonymous 9w

never text first again i’m gonna be honest she doesn’t wanna be friends if she’s doing that. unless she has a mental health situation going on like bpd or depression

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Anonymous 9w

I still live with the same roomate (going on three years) and I haven’t heard from her since the summer started. Just stop texting tbh yall don’t need to keep in touch. There’s no law that says either of you have to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

that’s what i was thinking cause she has no problem texting specific people but won’t text the person she lived with

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