AITA on Sidechat | My hg asked me to go see that new conjuring movie with her and i told her i’d check with my girl if it was cool with her she said no so i respected it then i woke up this morning and thought she’s over here going to bars and shi with her friends and…..

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AITA 2w

My hg asked me to go see that new conjuring movie with her and i told her i’d check with my girl if it was cool with her she said no so i respected it then i woke up this morning and thought she’s over here going to bars and shi with her friends and…..

Anonymous 2w

only telling me she’s going not asking for telling me who she’s with or nun and i let it slide bc i didn’t wanna be insecure or weird or nun but now she’s not comfortable with me going to a movie with my hg and i feel some type of way about it so AITA?

Anonymous

OP 2w

NTA, your girl insecure for not being able to reciprocate and match your energy on that. not coming at her for it but you gotta admit that’s hypocritical

Anonymous

#1 2w

i’m saying and like idk her friends idk if they are m or f idk nothing about them and i don’t say anything bc ik my girl is better than that and she knows that i wouldn’t do no stupid shi like that so i’m like what’s the issue here

Anonymous

OP 2w

in the future, set a boundary and ask her to communicate who she’s going out with. once the expectation exists, she will show you what’s rlly up based on how she responds

Anonymous

#1 2w

like yeah she might be better than that bro, but sometimes we can believe others to be better than they actually are, so make sure you’re on the same page w her always and be honest about how you feel

Anonymous

#1 2w

thank you for that imma talk to her about it later today

Anonymous

OP 2w

ofc man, fight for the relationship you care about, miscommunication is your biggest enemy