Anonymous #2 1w

I don’t want to forgive her and could live the rest of my life without talking to her. My dad on the other hand is trying to guilt trip me cuz everytime we call I can hear her crying in the background and my dad tries to convince me to reconcile with her.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Thank you. I wish they would understand my perspective instead of faking this image of a “happy” family

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Anonymous OP 1w

Well obvi do what you want I’ll just tell you tho I went through the same thing. My dad cheated on my mom but they’re still together years later and worked through it. It took a while but I was able to forgive him too because life is short and you only get 1 mom and 1 dad. I did it for the sake of keeping the family united and my mom wanted me to let it go too so it was more for her sake too. We’re all much happier now and learned not to hold grudges against each other

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Anonymous OP 1w

Of course i went through the same thing around 10, i distanced myself from my dad and he wanted the image of our relationship being happy but at the end of the day you have to be i whats best for your mental health and long term plus the decisions you make today, your opinion later on in life can change but they dont have to Hopefully they can come to terms with your perspective and apologize in some way

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