Anonymous #2 4w

It definitely feels like it because again: -He’s paying for everything -He’s in a major city so the chances of our rooms even being on the same floor are slim to none -He’s planning everything based on me and my family’s individual interests so that we all have a good time and my family has a good impression of him -The next time I see him, I wouldn’t have seen him for a month and a half and we can’t guarantee what will or won’t happen -We are both consensual adults having protected sex

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Anonymous #2 4w

Why should OP have to follow her wishes though??? OP is a consenting adult and while it may be hard to watch your kid grow up the mom needs to realize OP is not a child to be controlled anymore. It’s not under the mom’s roof nor is it even under her dime. It would be one thing if the boyfriend was staying with OP in a room the mom paid for but the mom has absolutely nothing to hold over OP’s head.

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Anonymous #5 4w

Right, and I’m trying to not let it be and stated a million and one times to my mother specifically “I am educated on birth control and contraceptives, I know where all the clinics are if something happens, and I will call you first if I need to go to an “appointment” of any kind” but I still get the barrage of questions like “Are you active”, “Are you planning on doing so”, “Are you on birth control”, “If you are having sex, with who” and so on and have been every visit since college started

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Anonymous OP 4w

Definitely and your bf is awesome!! You don’t have to obey your mom I’m just saying this would go easier if you did

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Anonymous #7 4w

Lmfao not once in almost 20 years, like I’m literally going on vacation to another state next month (I’ll be back a week before this meeting is supposed to happen and this was supposed to be my first vacation by myself) and she bombarded me for the specific location for days and I suddenly wake up one morning to a text saying “Your dad and I are coming with you on vacation now!”

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Anonymous OP 4w

Lmfao ew

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Anonymous OP 4w

Wtaf…I literally went on a vacation OUT OF THE COUNTRY with friends the summer before senior year (highschool) and my parents still didn’t pull ts. Are you an only child??? (Not that it would justify their behavior in any way, just may explain it a little)

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Anonymous #4 4w

Yeah, I’m the only child

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Anonymous #8 4w

That usually calms her down a bit. It got to a point where she wanted to know everything I was doing all the time, and I couldn’t handle it. I’d tell her honestly, either you can understand you are an adult and are doing these things, or else she can stay home from the trip because yall don’t need that negativity.

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Anonymous #8 4w

Also as far as your solo trip goes- tell her no tf she isn’t going with you. You are an adult and want your own trips and time alone and she is not infringing on that

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