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If you can’t trust your partner to go on a girls or guy trip you just shouldn’t be with them.
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Anonymous 3w

It’s not really a lack of trust it’s just that I think it’s weird to be on a trip with other girls without me. But like just his boys yeah idc. However, if he plans a trip idk why we wouldn’t plan a group trip with all of our friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I’m not being ignorant when I say this, but if it’s a girls trip, I’m under the impression that that means just girls and if it’s a guys trip then just guys😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Shit I didn’t read very well my bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Also for me at least my best friends since childhood live far away so every time we see each other it’s usually a girl trip. They get along with my boyfriend, but sometimes I would just like to see and catch up with them. Like I don’t always think friend hangouts need to involve your significant other.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

No, you’re good. Yeah, if it was a guys trip and other guys were inviting their girlfriends when I wasn’t invited then yeah I’d be mad😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I do think that’s different than a bunch of friends who live in the same town or same area scheduling a trip together but like I said I wouldn’t care if he wanted to go with his boys. I just think for us personally if we’re going to spend the money to have a trip we’d want eachother there to experience it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I think we both usually agree with the sentiment. I just think the older I get the more my friends move away and we live far apart, so both of us don’t live in our hometown and both of us don’t have friends that still live in the hometown. Like we have a friend in a different country friends in multiple states.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

So if we do see each other, it’s a full girls trip. Or guys trip and sometimes a little bit of both

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Yes yes I agree if I or he was traveling to meet up with friends that’s awesome and fun I don’t feel the need to watch his every move or anything. I really just mean if it’s a destination trip I would feel sad not being invited unless like specific circumstances like a bachelor trip or something were in play.

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