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AITA: im an only child, but my dad also raised his nephews (age 22 & 27) so same as brothers for me. One is a trust fund child, no job, no rent, no school, just sits on his ass and doe’s drugs. The other is trying tech school again, no rent, (see comment)
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Anonymous 1w

not the asshole, he should care for yall evenly. but it stands to show he believes he raised you best out of the three as you are doing the best

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Anonymous 1w

And he is a part time dishwasher. I finally said something to my dad and he got pretty mad at me for saying he enables them. Meanwhile, I’m in an amazing university, pay my own rent, and working 2 jobs. I need assistance too. Is it wrong for me to call my dad out on how he parents these boys?

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Anonymous 1w

There’s a huge guilt I carry for saying he’s an enabler, but I also am feeling selfish for asking for those resources for myself. Hell, I’d love to not have a job and focus on school as my priority.

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