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Okay I'm going to leave this here because the person responding decided to block. Calling this kind of message from a man "insignificant" is dangerous. It just is. A man who will insist upon not being creepy is a man who will leave your body to be found.
Be honest aita? I don't think so but I figured I should double check. Like it felt odd to me that he tried to not like other guys me and also then was like 😒 you suck at responding.
3 upvotes, 5 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in AITA. "Be honest aita? I don't think so but I figured I should double check. Like it felt odd to me that he tried to not like other guys me and also then was like 😒 you suck at responding."
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Anonymous 9w

The only thing where I was asking if I might've been the asshole was for responding at all instead of blocking, there is NOT a debate on whether or not this man's message was normal. If you think what he said was okay you are not a safe person for women to be around.

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Anonymous 9w

Not responding is responding. If he can't understand that you're not interested after you don't text back after a few messages over the course of a few days, then he shouldn't be on dating apps.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

See thank you, I thought it was more than clear and that's coming from me who's autistic. Like I do not know you sir.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

it was technically okay to say, just a little weird, it doesn’t automatically mean you’re gonna be on death row. get a grip

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

the only real red flag was him pointing out you not responding, everything else is fine lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

You have no context on what normal is.

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