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My mother embarrassed me in front of my whole family. It wasn’t “among family embarrassment”, it was just embarrassment out of the blue for no reason. After that I left for my university and ignored all communication with them(except for my sister). (1/?)
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Anonymous 6d

They’re acting like nothing wrong happened and it can be swept under the rug. Planning Halloween Party theme that I usually attend, sending dog pictures, etc. I haven’t told them that I’m not driving back to see them then. I would think they would realize that I’m not responding for a reason. Anyways, my mother said she wanted to visit me for my birthday. I’m debating on whether I should just continue to ignore her or tell her I have plans. Maybe ITA but I’m kind of done with how much I take.

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Anonymous 6d

It sounds like this isn’t the first time. I’d say you have plans. Tell her you’re upset and why. NTA

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Anonymous 6d

I think it’s fair to be upset, but if she didn’t realize why immediately, she’s not going to realize later. Tell her what upset you and then work from there

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