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My (now ex) girlfriend gave me an ultimatum; her or my (male) best friend. I chose my best friend because I won’t stay with someone who makes me choose between her and my friends.

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Anonymous 2w

why did she give you that ultimatum, there’s some stuff missing

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Anonymous 2w

Here’s the context, and no, there isn’t more context to give. This is literally it.

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Anonymous 2w

She def shouldn’t have given you an ultimatum that part is stupid af of her but it was disrespectful for her to host an event she probably worked hard on and looked forward to and u just dipped. Like u could probably call him anytime fr but you chose to do it during her event like

Anonymous 2w

Yeah that’s def not healthy, I think you made the right choice

Anonymous 2w

would like to hear more about this but generally you def made the right choice

Anonymous 2w

Hit her

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Anonymous

#1 2w

Fr I wanna know the tea

Anonymous

#1 2w

Check a comment I made, it has the context!

Anonymous

#4 2w

Added some context in a separate comment I made!

Anonymous

OP 2w

you are 10000% in the right

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Anonymous

OP 2w

she sounds controlling asf

Anonymous

OP 2w

wtf she sounds crazy. I was fully expecting for your friend to have done something to make her uncomfortable or angry, y’all literally did nothing wrong

Anonymous

#5 2w

Op did say that he’d drop the call. Even though you’re maybe right in that aspect like OP was going to be reasonable.

Anonymous

#7 2w

Yeah i see that but i mean 30 minutes went by and no time during that did he even think damn maybe i should do this later. Idk it’s just rude. If i hosted a special event and someone spent the entire time there on a phone call id feel some type of way too but yeah the ultimatum was way over the top

Anonymous

#5 2w

Okay some extra, EXTRA context is needed that I hadn’t thought was necessary, but hopefully this adds some needed answers 1. This was not a special event of any kind, we all had eaten at the campus dining hall, we all agreed to hang out, and Destiny chose to host and we just went straight to her dorm after grabbing snacks 2. I had Marcus on speaker for 75% of the call so that he could join in on the conversations with everyone there, the only reasons he wasn’t on speaker for the other 25% was—

Anonymous

OP 2w

—the five minutes of catching up and then Destiny actually continuously insulting him and making him feel awkward, not once before that did she express that she did not like me having him on the phone for everyone

Anonymous

#6 2w

Same I thought maybe the guy friend was a raging misogynist or something. She would have had a case if he was a creep. But she sounds really possessive and controlling. She should be encouraging of you spending quality time with your friends. I would hate to be the reason that my bf loses a good friend.

Anonymous

#5 2w

Yeah it was def rude but not ultimatum worthy

Anonymous

OP 2w

Oh damn nvm she’s just insane

Anonymous

OP 2w

Yeah that context was definitely needed 😂😂😂 u right

Anonymous

#8 2w

ur js as crazy as her

Anonymous

#10 2w

🤣 This got a good laugh out of me (reading the comment before you read the context and then the comment after) Looking back, she was very possessive and controlling and she definitely tried (and failed) to isolate me from our friends, but this was the out I needed to leave her

Anonymous

OP 2w

glad you’re able to laugh abt it,, and glad you got out of there. She was def trying some weird manipulation isolation thing