AITA on Sidechat | i had a whole nightmare about a friend who in that nightmare r*ped me and i don’t want to be friends with him now, i can’t look at him the same anymore. am i overreacting for wanting to drop him?

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AITA 1w

i had a whole nightmare about a friend who in that nightmare r*ped me and i don’t want to be friends with him now, i can’t look at him the same anymore. am i overreacting for wanting to drop him?

Anonymous 1w

dreams can definitely change your opinion on people/situations and i’m also a firm believer that dreams have meaning so i wouldn’t blame you if you did. sounds like you’re already dealing with some negative subconscious feelings about him

Anonymous 1w

I mean they didnt do anything to you in real life but also was there anything they did to make you see them in that way or was it completely random

Anonymous 6d

he WANTS to see you more since you’ve started dating someone?

Anonymous 6d

I had a nightmare my mom raped me a while back that shit is traumatizing wouldn’t wish it on anyone

Anonymous 4d

I mean you can drop anyone you want but i’d say you have to let him know why behind it because it wouldn’t be fair to him

Anonymous

#1 1w

it was kinda random but also hes just been weird lately. i recently started dating someone and since i told him hes been kinda pushy(in a not good way) about wanting to see me so idk.

Anonymous

#2 1w

yeah i think you’re right, i just didnt wanna seem like a dick because i had a nightmare and drop him just because of that when he didnt do anything irl.

Anonymous

#2 1w

This feels like it needs a therapy session idk how to feel about this

Anonymous

#5 6d

correct

Anonymous

OP 6d

yeah that’s odd. feels like there’s an ill intention there or a willingness to cross boundaries. maybe distance gradually but do it nicely? be safe <3