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would I be an asshole if i purposely made a first date with a guy to be on my bday so i don’t have to split the check and he just pays? not a fancy place but like a casual date
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Anonymous 3d

YTA. When you wanna date someone it should be with clear intentions not tricks like this. What if you end up liking him, get into a relationship with him and then tell him about your initial intention here? He’s gonna think you only wanted free food instead of getting to know him. Most ppl don’t appreciate users like you. You wanna go ahead and do that to get free food fine but don’t be surprised when it costs you his respect for you later when he finds out.

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Anonymous 3d

Yeah that’s like scamming for a free meal. He should offer to pay regardless but using ur bday as an excuse is a bit unfair

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Anonymous 3d

Maybe, maybe not died he know that is why you want the date on that day?

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Anonymous 2d

Yep

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Anonymous 2d

Or just get with guys who pay for the first date

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

haven’t done it yet wanted to know if it was an asshole thing to do before i did something i’d regret because i got mixed answers from my friends

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