AITA on Sidechat | AITA for not wanting my friends bf to come with us to the bar even tho we explicitly said girls only night??? i also have a bf and hes not coming. but ig her bf wanted to come jst make sure shes ok while going out. but still no bf’s allowed!!

Sidechat

Download

Join communities on Sidechat Download

AITA 20w

AITA for not wanting my friends bf to come with us to the bar even tho we explicitly said girls only night??? i also have a bf and hes not coming. but ig her bf wanted to come jst make sure shes ok while going out. but still no bf’s allowed!!

219

Anonymous 19w

Nta and don’t like when bfs insists on things like that. It’s one thing if she’s asking cause then I’d j be annoyed like she’s missing the point of girls night. But whys he pressing to come? Let her have fun gos forbid they spend time apart, not like she’s gonna find a guy at the bar. Nta I’d be annoyed

Anonymous 20w

Nta, it’s a girls night.

Anonymous 19w

I’m so glad I don’t know any bird brains. why does this have to be explained seems exhausting

Anonymous 19w

Sounds like the bf is controlling or trying to babysit the friend (in a bad way). If I were you I’d get w the other girls and see how they feel about it and possibly start planning without the girl, or start bringing ur bf’s bc to be honest I wouldn’t feel comfortable being tailgated by someone bf on a night no bf’s are supposed to be at.

Deleted 20w

Comment Deleted

Anonymous 19w

its more like he’s insisting to come

Anonymous

OP 19w

then you need to insist that it’s a girls night and she’ll be fine because she doesn’t need a supervisor

Deleted 19w

Comment Deleted

Anonymous 19w

I second this, dynamics like this can turn quickly and it’s better to check in now than wait for it to become dangerous

Anonymous 19w

Genuinely this is such a red flag I can’t ever imagine insisting being somewhere I’m not invited. Men like this are the worst, I have no tolerance for this bs anymore. Always controlling and manipulative.