
Nta and don’t like when bfs insists on things like that. It’s one thing if she’s asking cause then I’d j be annoyed like she’s missing the point of girls night. But whys he pressing to come? Let her have fun gos forbid they spend time apart, not like she’s gonna find a guy at the bar. Nta I’d be annoyed
Sounds like the bf is controlling or trying to babysit the friend (in a bad way). If I were you I’d get w the other girls and see how they feel about it and possibly start planning without the girl, or start bringing ur bf’s bc to be honest I wouldn’t feel comfortable being tailgated by someone bf on a night no bf’s are supposed to be at.
I’m not saying that this is what it is but I would check on her just in case.I had a friend the same thing was happening and he ended up being very controlling an emotionally abusive towards her and none of us knew. He could just be particular but it never hurts to ask if she needs any sort of help.