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AITA 4w
ive become such a hateful person since dating him and all I want to do is break up but he won’t let me because he says he’ll change… but you’re almost 24, and im still teaching you stuff your mother should’ve taught you
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Anonymous 4w

He’s not going to change, you have to be hard about it and break up

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Anonymous 4w

So he doesn’t have to “let you” break up with him, you can just do it

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Anonymous 4w

Your happiness matters more than his. Go before he knocks you down for the last time

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Anonymous 4w

Tf you mean “he won’t let me” Unless he’s threatening your life or holding you hostage, leave. And if he is- record proof and get help. nobody’s the asshole you’re just acting helpless for no apparent reason

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Anonymous 3w

YTA to yourself 🙏

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Anonymous 6d

“He won’t let me” is crazy talk You a grown ass adult!

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Anonymous 4w

I know it’s hard but you have to get it over with. Nothing will change. Just do it before it gets worse.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 4w

I want to, the last time I tried to was in September and then I got severely concussed and I leaned on him for support

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That’s understandable, I’m sorry that happened, but you should break up with him again and build a different support group

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I know it’s easier said than done but it’s necessary for you to have a good future

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 4w

He just used to be so different, so emotionally smart and intelligent, and lately it’s just like im dating someone with little to no common sense and it’s so beyond hurtful… today was a car accident (mild), then got stuck in a snow ditch, almost spun out {all would have been prevented if he cleaned the car correctly instead of half assed, once I did it for him, we stopped spinning out and getting into damages}, and then, the topping today, was there being water spilled near the power outlet

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

And him saying that it was dried, it wasn’t, I plugged in a wire, saw literal fire

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

It just feels impossible… I just miss who he was and who I was, I truly miss just being a happy person again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

He’s not that person anymore. You can’t go back, you have to go forward

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