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His friend came up to me and said his friend liked me—then asked if I liked his friend. After meeting friend, he’s lowkey creepy and I really just don’t feel a spark. Something feels off and I’m already not comfy with him. Is it bad to reject him already?
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Anonymous 8w

Nta, just gotta rip the bandaid off and give it to him straight. Better to be upfront than lead him on, even if unintentionally.

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Anonymous 8w

Thank you for your support!! I did it. I think he took it well! (Thank god lol)

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Anonymous 8w

Never wrong to reject anyone at any time! You're always allowed to say not interested even if you've only known them for a second

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Anonymous 8w

As a guy, nope, rejection is how u learn to act right, its on the dude to figure that out, all ur doing is helping.

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Anonymous 8w

Idk if it helps but my roommates also said he felt creepy and when his friend talked to me for him it felt practiced

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

More importantly, u have the right to say no to anyone, put urself first, his feelings be damned.

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