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Anonymous 2d

You should be honest that it upset you, but people learn from past relationships, and use what they learn. You should for sure delete it tho, it was from high school so you can’t really blame him, especially if he hasn’t used the iPad in a while. Neither is the a hole

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Anonymous 1d

You’re not mad?? Idk maybe you should be this sounds terrible

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Anonymous 2d

NTA & neither is he

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Anonymous replying to -> yakittyyik 2d

I told him how this was making me feel and not in the bad guy :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

you should absolutely let him know how you feel. how he responds is a good indication of his character.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Bro told me to delete the photos and when I told him how this was upsetting me he got mad at me for “snooping” dude 😭 imma be single for my birthday

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

bro is TA

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

nah, bro told them to stop snooping. dude should've ensured the iPad was wiped. he's TA.

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Anonymous replying to -> yakittyyik 2d

The snooping comment is very a holey

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Thanks. I wasn’t really upset until he got defensive and mean

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I’m sorry OP, it’s a shitty situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Weve been together a while and this ex was from like 9th grade. Idk I guess I’m more surprised? 😭 I was with a really terrible guy before him so maybe I’m desensitized

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Ok well, did he actively use this iPad before giving it to you? Or had it been kinda unused for a while before he gave it to you. Bc either way I think it’s weird he kept the photos regardless. I’m assuming that he was still using the iPad more recently than whenever they broke up. So that’s weird. But I guess he gets some slack if he wasn’t using it for a long time, like before y’all started dating, and forgot to delete them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Yes he hadn’t touched that thing in years I think.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I still hate this for you but I also have to vote that no one is the a hole even tho I think it’s weird he kept the photos but idrk when he stopped using it in relation to them deciding very clearly to never get back together

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

That usually means they are hiding more!!

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