
past that, i don't feel like what you do when intentionally overstimulated is generally your fault, although im biased. like my sister will intentionally overstimulated me while im clearly getting more and more irritated, and eventually i'll yell at her or take something, sometimes reflexively hit her if she's touching me or too close. putting me in fight or flight intentionally means you can't get mad when i leave, shutting down and ignore, or fight.